victimblaming:

Loving this poster from the Maine Coalition Against Sexual Assault, and the program it promotes: 

Recognizing sexist and homophobic language, realizing that it has an impact, encouraging students to choose different words, and giving them the skills to be active bystanders when they hear sexist and homophobic language: these are steps that each one of us can take to end gender-stereotypes, and to help end sexual violence.